27 Jan
2015

Weight Watchers: Friday Night Fever Edition (sponsored + sweepstakes!)

Minus the withering look from Blossom’s stepmother at the beginning, this is an accurate dramatization of my first week using the Weight Watchers app:

I was measuring, I was tracking, I was meeting all my goals, I was king of the disco floor. I was so confident of my inevitable success that I spent some time reimagining my wardrobe made entirely of spandex.

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At the end of that first week, I was strutting into the weekend with 15 extra points to spare and feelin’ pret-ty groovy. Aaaaand, then I woke up on Friday morning and realized my counter had reset for the week (surprise, my Weight Watchers week is Friday to Friday, not Sunday to Sunday), meaning I wasn’t doing as well as I’d thought, given that those 49 “extra” points in my weekly allowance had yet to encounter their arch nemesis: the Weekend.

So. Yeah. About Friday night. I went to a party and exceeded my daily points goal by almost double (DUH-BULL) to the tune of a taco bar, other people’s wine, and homemade blueberry streusel muffins made of MAGIC. It was awesome and I regret nothing, but it was also a major reality check, and I basically spent the next six days like this:

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The thing is, even if you’re aware you’re overeating when you’re mid-bite, it’s incredibly hard to bridge the mental gap between that one moment of immediate gratification and its long-term consequences, especially when you keep thinking of that one moment of indulgence as an isolated incident, instead of taking a step back and acknowledging that aaalllll those isolated moments have joined up to form a giant conga line that stretches down the block.

What Weight Watchers does is shine a spotlight on the conga line so you can’t keep pretending it’s not there, snaking off into the distance, maracas a-shake. Weight Watchers turns the conga music up to 11 so you can’t pretend you don’t hear it.

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In just this short time using the PointsPlus system, the most important thing I’ve learned is how life-changing it is to be able to quantify my interaction with food. I don’t know about you, but saying, “I ate kinda bad on Friday night so I need to eat kinda better on Saturday morning” does not pave a smooth path toward success but instead a creates a dead-end street cobbled with cop-outs.

In contrast, I’ve found I can actually change my eating habits when I can say, “I have this many points per day/week, and this thing I’m considering eating right now will cost me X number of those points, so I need to make a choice.” And it’s in that moment–that balanced-on-the-roof-ridge-of-decision moment–that Weight Watchers is empowering and has the potential to inspire real change. Because the program isn’t about following rules, it’s about making choices. Yes, there are guidelines in place to help you make good choices instead of bad ones, and yes, there are personal coaches and a 24/7 chat line to point you in the right direction, but in the end, in the program as in life, the choice is up to you. That’s the good news and the bad news, but mostly the good news.

When my personal coach, Betsy, asked me during our first session what I thought would be my biggest obstacle, I told her it was likely to be my stubbornness; I’m used to talking my way into and out of things, I’m used to no one being the boss of me, and I’m used to having my cake and eating it too, so trying to follow a program while being ultimately beholden to no one but myself, well…that would be interesting. I predicted my Weight Watchers experience would be more of a mental game than a physical game, and so far that’s turned out to be true. I’m never hungry on the program (huge sigh of relief), but I do find myself grumping over the points values of this versus that, and whimpering while everyone else is having another cocktail. But it’s not because the system feels unfair or cruelly restrictive but because I’m simply not used to it. But I’m getting used to it. And I think it’s working.

This is my last post for the campaign (unless enough of you follow Kathleen’s lead and clamor for more?), but I’ll be staying on the program through at least the end of March, and I’m feeling really good about it. When I first mentioned I was doing this on Twitter, a handful of people said the program absolutely works for those who take it seriously and make a consistent effort to follow the plan, and I really took that to heart. I’ve been religiously tracking points (nary a single nibble of pb&j while I’m making kindergarten lunch goes unrecorded), and I’m paying close attention to all the physical and emotional ups and downs of the experience too. This week, Personal Coach Betsy (I’m down with PCB, yeah, you know me) helped me set a goal to get regular exercise back into my life (props to Whitney for recommending a 7-minute workout app), and I’m looking forward to having her support (and yours) through that process.

Although this blog series is ending, I feel like my journey (dammit!) is just beginning. Thanks for letting me share, and I wish you all luck in your lose-weight/eat-better/exercise-more/feel-awesome endeavors.

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22 Jan
2015
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Down by the Bay

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Don’t let that photo fool you. Right now, sitting in my house with the fire on full roar, I’m wearing a scarf so big I could use it as a queen-sized top sheet, and in the last three hours I’ve changed my socks two times because there’s some sort of physics-twisting microclimate inside my slippers that causes my toes to sweat so much they freeze. #science This time of year, our house stays in the shadow of the tall one next door (Jack London’s daughter built the top story so her father would have a writing studio when he stayed with her; have I ever told you that?), and this means we spend a good chunk of the year huddled in layers while outside it’s practically spring. Damn you, Jack London.

Thus, it is in the spirit of not being able to feel my fingers that I wanted to post a video Simon made of a trip we took to the beach last May. I’ve always been equipped to answer the questions “What’s the coldest you ever been?” (camping in Utah in October) and “What’s the hottest?” (New York City subway in August), but now if someone ever asks what day was the weather so absolutely perfect it felt like the whole world was encased in a soft-focus filter of temperate loveliness, I can show them this movie.

When we parked a million miles away from the beach, the wind was blowing so hard and cold we didn’t think we’d be staying long, so instead of hauling ten tons of “essential” equipment, we truncated to a blanket and some food, leaving even the kids’ swimsuits behind. As it turned out, the area at water’s edge felt like stepping into a warm bath, felt as if the air were attached to an extra-smart thermostat that hasn’t been invented yet, the kind that regulates the ambient temperature according to a person’s body temp and mind temp[erament]. It was one of those feel-nostalgic-about-the-moment-you’re-currently-living-in situations. Those are the gems I collect to fill my mental jewelry box. This is the jewel I’ll pull out whenever it’s 59 degrees inside the house.

NB: Please to be overlooking the fact that the song is “By the Sea” when we are, in fact, by the bay, and also that the song is about taking a quick vacation from the daily, literal grind of murdering random people for the purposes of mincing them into pie meat. If it bothers you, press mute and put on some Debussy or something.

20 Jan
2015

The Skinny on Weight Watchers (sponsored + sweepstakes!)

Now that I’m well into my Weight Watchers journey experience adventure lifestyle-changeapalooza, I thought I’d write about the actual mechanics of making the transition from following a free-for-all “see-food” diet to being more mindful about what I’m eating (and when and why). To be blunt, it’s… not easy. But it’s also not terrible, provided I regularly remind myself that I’m playing a long game rather than following the Brat Diet, which, I don’t know what you’ve heard, but it does not actually stand for “bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast.” It means adhering to the Veruca Salt Code of Behavior, i.e., I want what I want when I want it.

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During my first coaching session, Betsy helped me come up with one specific, measurable goal to work on for the first week, and the thing that came immediately to mind was my beloved bowl of late-night cereal, may she rest in peace on alternate days. The thing with the cereal is that I know it’s not ideal to eat right before bed, and I know if I’m actually hungry there are better choices to make than something sugary, and I know it’s more about comfort of habit than hunger anyway, but mmmmmmmm, it’s so good and I so look forward to it and I so have amassed an impressive variety of justifications for why it’s not that bad, so yes, what I’m saying is giving up a bowl of Raisin Bran is My Struggle.

This… well, it’s not the sort of thing I imagine comes up too often in a traditional Weight Watchers meeting. And that is exactly why personal coaching is brilliant, especially for those of us with special-snowflake needs that include aspiring to triumph in the daily mano a mano with a breakfast food. Having dedicated one-on-one support through a personal coach means the Weight Watchers program is about ME rather than about general issues common to a larger group, and this makes the whole thing feel like a worthy use of my time and effort.

Thus my goal for Week 1 was to replace one bad habit (cereaaaaalll) with one good habit (a big glass of carbonated citrus water) for four nights out of seven, and when I first wrote it out I was like, “Please. This is nothing,” but then it turned out to be more than nothing, (a) because it meant getting real with myself and being held accountable to someone else for once, and (b) because delicious habits are hard to break. (Wouldn’t that make a great copy line? “Weight Watchers: Because delicious habits are hard to break.” Call me, Weight Watchers! Oh, wait.)

That’s another thing: I really appreciate that Weight Watchers not only acknowledges that changing food habits is hard work but it puts that message front and center. (I wasn’t asked to share this video, I just really like it.)

The good news is that the hard stuff is mostly mental, at least for me, at least right now. The system itself is easy to understand (NB: counting points is not the same as counting calories; revelation!), and my coach helps by bringing a positive, encouraging voice to the table. Yes, it adds a bit of fussiness to measure and calculate everything when you’re first getting started (did you see my wine in a measuring cup?), but for someone like me who eats a pretty narrow selection of food (I would make an excellent house pet), I had much less of that to do after just the first week, especially as I became familiar with where my points went during the day and with what constitutes a reasonable portion, e.g., maybe not a third serving of rice. (Me: “Brown rice is healthy! I shall eat three heaping cups of healthiness!” Weight Watchers Me: “NO.”)

So far the PointsPlus system has given me a new perspective on how to balance my nutrition throughout the day and is constantly, rewardingly, making me ask myself, “Is this where I want to spend my points, or would I rather have an actual treat later on?” I mean, when a microwave lasagna is as many points as a glass of wine and a handful of chocolate chips, I find it much easier to have a salad for lunch instead.

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Now, I love salads, but sometimes I need something warm and comfort-foody, especially when it’s 64 degrees inside the house, and I’ve found Weight Watchers helpful with that too. My first WW recipe (I found it online but was able to cook from it using the awesome app) was a hit; we ate it for dinner one night and lunch the next day, and then Simon said he’d make a special trip to the store so I could whip up another batch immediately. I’d never even heard of wheat berries (pro tip: they’re not berries), and now they’re one of my favorite things. I have another pot of Weight Watchers Wheat Berry Minestrone in the crockpot right now and am saving my points so I can have more than one serving.

For those who are interested, whether you’re officially on Weight Watchers or not (yet), I’m pinning other Weight Watchers recipes as well, and I’d love to know if you’ve tried or plan to try any of them. Share your delicious, delicious wisdom! Don’t be a brat.

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